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What I'm trying to figure out is whether I should move out tomorrow (Feb 1 - which is likely to screw them but be easier on me) or give them one months notice and move out Mar 1st. I might move in with another friend (she's talking it over with her husband as we speak), or whether I should go back to my mom's for a month (which would be nice for her because her partner passed away over the holidays)... but leaving right away would likely screw over some people I work part time for...
Okay if you moved out today (btw I was SO tired last night I forgot I'd committed to this, sorry for the delay!)
6 of Swords King of Wands 8 of Wands rx The Hermit rx King of Pentacles rx
It would be convenient for you but they'd be REALLY ****** . This move would be the one most likely to sever the ties vs. the other options. It may be this would be harder on you as well, because with Hermit rx and King of Pentacles like that I'm wondering if you won't need them in the future in a small way?
If you moved out March 1st -
2 of Wands rx Knight of Cups rx Knight of Swords 8 of Pentacles rx Knight of Wands
Not super great cards but less strong than the first draw which makes me think you would suffer less of a wrath here. They would definitely be disappointed and not handle the news / change very well as yes they are being selfish regarding you and their finances but they would be more accepting of your decision and give you that freedom. Don't let them gang up on you however, use that energy of the King of Wands from the first draw to stand your ground and be confident in your decision.
I asked where the best place for you to live right now would be and ultimately got that it's your friend with her husband. Did you hear anything from them?
The first three cards were Knight of Cups 7 of Cups and 5 of Pentacles which tell of the situation I think. The second was the 3 of Swords 2 of Wands 4 of Wands - the dilemma specifically and that you don't want to disappoint your roommates but you're putting yourself first (not a bad thing) and the last two cards I got was 3 of Pentacles and 10 of Cups, so is your friend a co-worker by any chance? Just wondering for learning's sake.
Let me know if you need anything, it does sound quite stressful!